The Advocate
“I will go to war for the people I love.”
You feel things at full volume. When you care, everyone knows—you'll defend your people without hesitation, remember every slight against them, and hold grudges on their behalf like it's a part-time job. Your passion is your superpower. Dating you means having someone who will always be in your corner, loudly and proudly. The energy you bring to loving someone is unmatched—you're all in, always. The catch? You can get invested too fast. You fight battles that aren't yours. You mistake intensity for intimacy, and sometimes people just need you to chill and listen. Your growth edge is learning that not everything is a cause—and that quiet support can be just as powerful as going to war.
Core Traits
Green = strengths, Amber = growth edges
In Relationships
You love HARD. When you're in, you're their biggest champion, their fiercest defender, their ride-or-die. Your passion translates to loyalty that would make mafia movies jealous.
At Your Best
The partner everyone wishes they had in their corner. You'll go to war for your person, remember every slight against them, and love with your whole chest.
At Your Worst
You can burn too hot. Your intensity can be overwhelming. You might fight battles that aren't yours or mistake drama for depth.
What You Need From a Partner
Someone who can receive intense love without running from it. A partner who appreciates your passion but can also tell you when to stand down.
Your Love Language
Words of Affirmation—but make them declarations. You tell people exactly how you feel, loudly and often.
Green Flags You Look For
- ✓Matches your energy
- ✓Has things they care deeply about
- ✓Isn't afraid of big feelings
Dealbreakers
- ✗Wishy-washy people
- ✗Those who won't defend you
- ✗Partners who think passion is "too much"
Your Best Matches
“I'd rather understand you than impress you.”
Thought meets passion. The Philosopher brings nuance to the Advocate's convictions, while the Advocate reminds the Philosopher that sometimes you have to stop analyzing and start acting.
“Plans are just suggestions.”
A unique pairing that brings out different sides of each other.
“I don't wait for things to happen.”
Two forces of nature. Both of you are all-in types who match each other's intensity. The energy is high, the passion is real, and together you can move mountains.
Often Found As
Famous Examples
Your Growth Edge
⚡ Has definitely drafted a text they didn't send.
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